The Brave and Balanced Fundraiser
The Brave and Balanced Fundraiser is the podcast I wish had existed during my 15 years in fundraising. It’s a love offering to the people behind the mission—the professional fundraisers who give their hearts and energy every day to make the world better.
This show isn’t about strategy, metrics, or money. It’s about you—the human being doing the work. Each episode offers real tools and soulful conversations to help you regulate your nervous system, reconnect with your purpose, and renew your energy so you can lead with clarity, compassion, and courage.
If you’ve ever felt stretched thin, overworked, or caught in the constant pressure to perform, this podcast is your invitation to return home to yourself. Join me to learn how to cultivate balance, resilience, and authentic impact—from the inside out.
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The Brave and Balanced Fundraiser
A Guided Meditation to Release Fundraising Anxiety
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A calming, somatic reset to help you regulate, soften, and return to yourself.
This gentle guided meditation is your nervous-system reset—a place to soften the pressure, reconnect with yourself, and release the anxious momentum that fundraising can create. In this bonus episode, Erin leads you through a grounding practice designed to help you separate who you are from the sensations of anxiety moving through your body.
You’ll tune into love, safety, breath, and presence… and remember that anxiety is not a personal failing, but a messenger asking for compassion and attention.
This meditation will help you:
- Slow down an activated nervous system
- Meet anxious sensations with warmth instead of fear
- Reconnect with someone or something you love
- Create internal spaciousness when your thoughts feel tight
- Return to a grounded sense of “I am not my anxiety”
Use this anytime you feel overwhelmed, tense, or disconnected from yourself. Your inner world is yours to lead—and every time you pause to reset, you’re building the resilience that supports you, your donors, and your mission.
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Welcome, friend. I'm so glad you're here. Go ahead and settle into a comfortable position and let your body be supported. And if it feels good, gently close your eyes. Take a slow breath through your nose. And a long, easy exhale out of your mouth. Let's do that again. Inhaling, softening, exhaling, and releasing. And just notice what it feels like to arrive here, and I want you to become aware of someone you love so much, whether living or past maybe a loved one or a pet. Or a beautiful place in nature that you feel connected to, and just bring that person or place to mind, see their face, and just feel love, rise up in you. What does it feel like? To love someone or something without any agenda, just fully feeling that love. And right now there's nothing you need to fix. There's nothing you need to figure out. This is simply time to reconnect with yourself beyond the stories, beyond the pressure, beyond the anxious momentum of fundraising and life, and let your breath fall into its natural rhythm. And begin to notice the places in your body where anxiety tends to show up, maybe in the chest or the belly, the throat, the jaw, wherever it is for you, just notice it gently without trying to change it. Imagine you could offer that place your presence as if you're bringing a warm hand or a soft light right to the center of that sensation. You're not trying to make it go away, you're simply allowing it to be here. Like a child that's been trying to get your attention, take a slow inhale right into that area, and as you exhale, imagine the tension melting by even 1%. Good. Now, I invite you to get curious. If this sensation could speak, what might it be trying to tell you? Maybe it's saying, I'm trying to protect you. I'm trying to keep you safe. I'm afraid you might fail. I'm trying to make sure that you are liked so you're safe. Just listen without needing to do anything about it. Anxiety is not who you are. It's a messenger. It is just feedback that something within you wants more support, more presence, more compassion. And so take another slow breath in, and as you exhale, imagine the anxious energy gently unwinding like a TA tight knot beginning to loosen. You take another slow breath in, and as you exhale, imagine the anxious energy gently unwinding like a tight knot, beginning to loosen. Feel the ground beneath you, the support of your chair, the air on your skin. You are here, you are safe, and you are separate from the sensations moving through your body. Imagine now that your breath is expanding into the places that feel calm. Maybe the lower belly, the hands, the feet, or even just one small pocket of stillness somewhere around your heart. And let your awareness rest there for a moment, and if you can't feel something in your body that feels safe, I invite you to go back to that memory of the one you love. And feel that shift. This is a part of you that anxiety can't touch from this grounded place. Repeat silently after me. I am not my anxiety. I am the one who notices and I choose to meet myself with compassion. Take a deep inhale and a soft, complete exhale. Let's do one more. Inhale filling up the body with spaciousness and exhale letting go of anything that's ready to release now. And as we close, I invite you to bring your awareness back into the room. Wiggle your fingers and toes gently lift up your shoulders. And let them drop back and down. And when you're ready, open your eyes. You've just given your nervous system the gift of your presence, and this is a reset you can return to anytime you notice anxiety rising. Your inner world is yours to lead, and you're doing beautifully. Thank you for taking this time for yourself and for showing up in a new way for you, for your donors, and for the constituents that your work ultimately serves.